Top Erogenous Zones of a Female
If you're floundering in the bedroom and your girlfriend is moaning for all the wrong reasons, these tips will point you in the ideal direction.
Gentlemen! If you wish to get your girl moaning for real rather than faking it, you are going to need to put a little bit of work in. Primarily, a man can achieve orgasm within 2 - 3 minutes when stimulated by a different spouse. Where as a lady can take around 15 minutes to orgasm.
If you know for a fact that you can not keep going for this long by pure sex alone (and lets face it, if you are doing that, you are having sex, not making love) then you're going to have to stimulate her body with foreplay rather.
Before you panic and freak out, all this can be achieved with your hands and tongue. I guarantee you will get a better lover in the bedroom AND you will offer her orgasm after orgasm.
The best female erogenous zones
Aside from being sexy and attractive, the feminine neck is maybe among the most sensitive regions of her body. Softly kissing this area from her shoulder to below her ear (while at the same time massaging it with your tongue will send tingles and pulses up and down her spine. Keep at it and she'll be breathing heavily in a really short time period.
The ear lobes
Sucking ear lobes is not for everybody. Some women get the tickles when you do it but others just love it. While you're there you can whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Close facial touch is what she enjoys so this is a fantastic means to do it if you are fed up with kissing on the lips. Additionally massaging her ear lobes with your fingers from time to time can be quite soothing.
On a level with the neck for sensitivity, the female nipples become hard and sit right when stimulated with your tongue. Do not forget to give both breasts attention and also kiss in between her breasts as you work your way between the two of them. If she has not grabbed your head at this point and hauled it in her bosom, something is badly wrong.
The belly button
Working your way down her body, the belly button is another place you should excite before full intercourse. Kissing this area with your tongue and lips will cause vibrations which will vibrate throughout her reproductive area and start to stimulate her G spot.
The G Spot
Ah the G spot. This holy grail legend of the female anatomy can be challenging to discover. Therefore, if the opportunity arises, ask her if she's found her G spot and allow her point you in the ideal direction.
As a general guide, most female G stains are seen on the roof of the vagina (that is the side nearest to her belly.) . It is about the size and shape of a two pence coin and can be seen approximately 4 inches in.
Extreme caution should be taken when stimulating this area with your fingers or tongue as a female can quite literally drop control of her limbs. Do not be surprised if you get kneed in the face or get elbowed as she moans in ecstasy. It should also be noted that not all females have a G spot, so don't be alarmed if you can't find it. As you have noticed there are tons of other regions of the female body which may be stimulated in the art of love making so as to help her orgasm.
Doing a combination of all of these things will leave her begging for more and you'll be a better lover for this. Experimentation is the trick to learn what works and what does not as everybody isn't the same.
As you can see, a real female orgasm involves the stimulation of her entire body instead of only simple penetration. Taking the opportunity to show care and attention to her demands will put you far above any other fans, she may have experienced that you might find it tricky escaping from the mattress.
I hope this report helps your love life get back on track and that you become better and more confident at making love instead of just having sex. Above all else, if you would like to become a better lover, ask your partner what they like and what they would like you to do to them. Not only will you help them get their rocks off faster, you will also show that you're considering their needs and they in turn will consider yours. This will create a far better experience than if both parties are focusing on what each can escape the experience at a very egocentric way.